
On behalf of our little butterfly for Halloween!
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Hugs and soon hopefully!
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So I called, and it does not really seem to open it moving fast! I told him that we had almost finished the interviews with social ass, and if we could see it too, we could go to committee in December ...
But she made me understand that if social ass had nothing to do, was not her case, she had a lot of work and therefore, for her, no appointment expected before Christmas!!
Well you're a little disappointed, but that's life! Too bad ...
She said "I like you, I will contact you when it will be possible ..." Voilou, therefore a priori we have to wait 2 months! Flo has a pending appointment next week, individually, we will give you some news!
PATIENCE ...
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Meanwhile, Hugs to all!
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Well of course in my case, the bullet was my birth, that it actually happened, the consequences are difficult, the impact on our family life. Is what I wanted my daughter (well probably not !)...
When we come to want to adopt, we wish the same way every two ...
Then we approached the point of view of Loan, how she would accept me after the arrival of this little brother or sister. How to talk to us about this unborn child, how Impliquons us in the project ...
How we planned to educate the future child of any place we had to offer (what is this question !!!!), and honestly, we do not see how the differences this child, because it does not necessarily look like us (physically or mentally). How we would react if the child, as often was a little delayed development due to its past unchallenging ...
She also asked me what I thought of the story post-adoption of the child, how I wanted to include or not in the life of this future child.
Then probably a whole bunch of other things! But there on the spot, I'm blocked, I have a little pain in skull! I'll come if I remember to add other points, it will always help the next candidate!
Anyway, I think for the interview, I was comfortable, attentive and really into it! By cons along I spoke, I thought, 'Wow, I do not think all that I could live before, would one day spread out like that, or not affecting a big decision ... Whether my love affairs, or my family's past ... It's strange all the same everything débalage! While I understand the rationale, and the desire to provide the child with family descents, I felt a bit intrusive to some his questions ... M'enfin seems like the other "is the game my poor Lucette
voilou, maintenance no longer sharp, intimate and personal. Less obvious than the first. But honestly I talked all the way, I have not tried to hide, I did not answer ready as I could read right to left to please him. I decided to play fair, because it's not me that question, but the whole family, so if it turns out that we are not able to properly take care of an adopted child, better to know now! So here, I have not tried to embellish it was crude!
I'll go get me Doliprane LOOOOOOOL!
Hugs to all, thank you all for your support, whether here, sms, msn, phone, short THANK YOU, this project is VERY IMPORTANT to us and show your enthusiasm, your encouragement, well it affects us strangely ♥
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Hugs!
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Then she had to have the 50 groin, and her mouth was redone I think loooool! But otherwise it was well on her own, rather Joules! But who cares!
We moved to the dining room table, and she took the coffee he was offered ...
We started by talking about Loan, because she did not know we had a child, so she requested the information directly! His age, his name, etc. ...
Then a lot of things about us, administrative side, first name, occupation, salary ...
son Then needles were tipped on matters: Ethnicity, gender, age ... We said that we had no a priori on ethnic, quelqu'elles are, what is true, but we knew as the choice of FAO, it would "have to" move to a country more than another, and that therefore they had actually thought of a few countries. But we wanted for now, stick to ethnicity unimportant. For sex of course, irrelevant, and age, a child less than Loan not to change the order of siblings, which seems very important. She also asked us if we accept a particular child, and we were honest, would depend on the degree of particularity, but for us, the choice of a child says "Special features in" was another project a vocation.
Then of course we talked about the path that led us to adoption. Where did this desire, who wore the project, our feelings about this adventure, the place we are going to give him ...
She explained her role in this process, why she asked us these questions, why certain abandoned the procedure along the way, etc. ...
Then she wanted to visit the house, and asked him to Loan of the tour, which she did as a small head! It was on the wane Loan chamber and did not leave more LOL!
Then she gave us our individual appointment, so for me on October 16 and October 30 for Flo.
Then she left me in congratulating my taste for the decoration LOL, and voilou!
So in conclusion, it went pretty well! Gone, then deeply now!
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We are (currently) pretty zen we say that we will stay the same, because it is not so bad being ourselves LOL There is nothing special that can be scary, so we are told that our chances!
was tidy the house (well, it was not finished !!!), we mowed the lawn, washed the terrace ... Well, what normal!
Gone, but wait is now siding with right to left, and we will replay the frame ( HERE) for a bit to prepare for responses, then it will be fine!
Zennnnnnnnnn! There's worse in life ...
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